October4
Hi Anya,
I was wondering if you have any recommendations for bleach-abused/generally exhausted hair. For a year and a half I had my hair professionally dyed a permanent brown and had my fringe and sides bleached blonde. Not understanding the damage or process of bleach, I had it repeatedly bleached over every 6 weeks or so, and am unfortunately now paying for it!

(This photo is an example of how much and how thoroughly I used to get my hair bleached.)
The bleached sections are completely dead, they feel like straw, and even conditioning dyes don’t touch the damaged areas. The purple I use comes out rich everywhere but the dead areas, where it only goes a very pale lilac, but is washed back to the stark white it was before dyeing. I had a lot of hair bleached, so getting it slowly cut out will take an awfully long time, is there any way I can save my hair or must I abandon hair colouring to let it all grow out?

(This is a shot of my hair after two washes, where you can see the drastic change between healthy hair that has grown through since I stopped getting it bleached, and the dead hair. You can see how the remaining purple sits nicely, yet the damaged is all fluffy and impossible to do anything with.)
I attempted to straighten it once to see if I could at least control it, but the hairs snapped as I did so, so I stopped using straighteners at all. This damage has been done to both the sides of my head, to my fringe (although the fringe isn’t quite so badly damaged, it can remain a pale lilac longer than anywhere else) and to various areas round the back.
I do use anti-dandruff shampoos and conditioners, which I know strip colour out a bit more than normal, but even a months worth of Tresemme deep recovery shampoo and conditioner did nothing to help it. The colour lasted maybe one extra wash than normal but was still dry and brittle and white.
If I am to abandon colouring, would it be an alright idea to get all of the dyed brown hair (never touched by bleach, and in very good condition) bleached the once, so that the white damaged hair won’t look such a stark and noticeable contrast? Also I was hoping in future to go electric blue, so bleaching the permanent brown out would be a must, if it wouldn’t obliterate my hair? I’m wary that bleaching permanent brown may make it go a funny colour and/or cause the same damage that the rest of my hair is currently suffering.
Any input would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks!
Damaged Damsel in dis-Tress.
P.S. The ebook is brilliant. I recently purchased it, and this is what made me realize that I need some serious SOS on my hair.
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Dear Damaged Damsel in dis-Tress,
Thank you for your message and photos.
Ok, so lets start with the bleach damaged hair…
What upsets me the most about your situation is that you said you had it professionally bleached and dyed! Your hairdresser should know better than to bleach the hair over and over again, rather that just touching up the roots! And its your hairdressers responsibility to say ‘No I won’t bleach your hair any more’ if they think bleaching is causing to much damage, how are you to know when enough is enough? You can only tell when it is to late.
You said: “Not understanding the damage or process of bleach, I had it repeatedly bleached over every 6 weeks or so, and am unfortunately now paying for it!”.
You, as a customer, shouldn’t have to understand the damage or process of bleach, that’s why you go to a salon to get a professional to do it! You shouldn’t have to pay for someone else’s negligence. If I were you I would go back and complain, they at least should compensate you with a free hair cut or treatment to help the condition they have left your hair in. And in future I would find a new hairdresser!
Ok, sorry for the rant, it just upsets me to hear things like that. Lets get on to how we can redeem the situation…
“…is there any way I can save my hair or must I abandon hair colouring to let it all grow out?”
Not at all, you can still colour, but you must colour correctly so as not to damage your hair any more. Here’s how to colour correctly for your hair:
- Maintain the bleached areas by ONLY touching up the roots. NEVER bleach hair that is already bleached, its unnecessary and simply causes more damage (as you know). Also use the ammonia free bleach on your roots if you can. The roots of the bleached areas are natural hair and should lift well with this (Of course if your natural hair isn’t to dark and is a suitable shade, refer to the ebook for this.)
- And the brown colour you are dyeing the rest, swap to a semi rather than a permanent. I suggest L’Oreal Richesse something on a level 6… like a 6.23. These colours are ammonia free and are mixed with the Richesse developer, which is a low level of peroxide (10%) . This will make it easier for when you wish to lighten all of your hair in future, plus makes the brown hair super shiny and healthy.

- You can continue with the purple (or whatever alternative colour you like) as they are synthetic dyes, so they have no peroxide or ammonia. You can colour you hair as much as you like with these semi-permanent funky colours, and never dry out or damage your hair. In fact they are quite conditioning!
“Tresemme deep recovery shampoo and conditioner did nothing to help it…”
You need to use the right products to improve the condition of the damaged bleached hair. I’ve used Tresemme and I’m not a fan. I actually feel like it dries the hair more! Here are my current favourite products for damaged hair:
- Moroccan Oil (Website: http://www.moroccanoil.com/)
- L’Oreal, ‘Absolut Repair’ range (Website: http://www.lorealprofessionnel.co.uk)

These products are available online or at most salons. They are a bit pricey, but its good stuff.
“I had a lot of hair bleached, so getting it slowly cut out will take an awfully long time”
Of course growing out the healthy hair and cutting off the damaged ends will also get you hair back to a good state, and may not take as long as you think. Here are some tips:
- I suggest you get your hair cut every 5-6 weeks to help improve the condition. You just need the ends trimmed but it will make all the difference. And no thinning scissors or razor blade cutting/slicing, these cause split ends and will not help the condition of your hair. Just have simple blunt cuts, and blunt layers (also know as club cutting). If you have a good hairdresser they will know how to create any style (including choppy layers) using this technique.
- And for speeding up hair growth I hear Biotin works well (to buy: http://uk.shopping.com/nutrition/biotin/products). I haven’t personally used it but I’ve had customers who have and say it works for them. Also to help the hair growth, eat food with vitamin E, and do regular head rubs to stimulate blood flow to the scalp.

Hair grows on average about 1/2 an inch a month. So I reckon in about 6 months, maintaining your current length with regular cuts, you should have cut off a total of 3 inch’s off the damaged ends and have a fresh 3 inch’s of healthy hair growth (Or more if you use the Biotin). The condition should be massively improved by then, partiality with the use of good products/treatments.
“I attempted to straighten it once to see if I could at least control it, but the hairs snapped as I did so, so I stopped using straighteners at all.”
Glad to hear you are not straightening your hair. If you can lay off all heat styling for a while, even blow dryers, you will see a big difference! Of course once the condition has improved you can resume heat styling, but just give your hair a heat holiday for a little while. It will love you for it! And of course use heat protection when you do resume heat styling.
Now let me get on to answering your other question….
“Would it be an alright idea to get all of the dyed brown hair (never touched by bleach, and in very good condition) bleached the once, so that the white damaged hair won’t look such a stark and noticeable contrast?”
Yes this would be fine, the condition after just one bleach should be ok (of course it won’t feel as great as it does now, but it will hold out and be ok). The result may be more of a yellow blonde than if it was just natural hair, but if you intend on going over with an alternative colour you would be ok (although I wouldn’t colour over with light blue as it may come out more green. If you want blue all over, go for a dark blue).
But to be honest I wouldn’t do it if it was me, at least not yet. I would wait till the semi permanent brown was used a few times and the permanent had grown out a bit, as this would make it easier to bleach. And a few things to consider with a full head bleach is… it takes more time to do than streaks, causes some damage to all you hair (not just parts), cost’s more and is high maintenance for you (roots need doing every 3-4 weeks). Maybe don’t do it just yet, let the damaged hair get a bit better and then have another think about it.
And the mix of blonde and brown in the photo looks fine, I quite like it! And you can always play around with the funky colours you use if you want a change.
Peace,
Anya
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